How does the way someone dresses or wears their hair have an impact on your life? Genetic coinflips have an impact on all of our lives, but we don’t freak out about eye color, webbed toes, or the presence or absence of ear lobes.

Stop fixating on someones genitals or anything else about their body and worry about your own presentation, cuz right now you’re looking pretty ugly.

Not convinced? Read “Beyond ‘He’ or ‘She’: The Changing Meaning of Gender and Sexuality” by Katy Steinmetz.